Pleasure Instigator,

Permission Granter

Living a Sensual & Pleasurable life is possible!

You were probably never taught that sex should be fun. We all have the capacity to live as fully sensing beings. We just need to re-learn how to experience life from this place of curiosity, because pleasure is your birthright.

Women often feel depleted, exhausted, and disconnected from their bodies for so many different reasons. We are taught that pleasure and fun is meant for giving away to others, or that it’s frivolous, and not meant for us.

Eventually, our body can go numb to anything having to do with our senses and sexuality. We are left with shame and guilt over our own desires.

If that’s what brings you here, first, I want to say:

Thank you so much for recognizing that you are desiring to reconnect the pieces of your knowing. I appreciate that you felt that calling to be lifted and loved in perfection and pleasure.

That listening is the first step.

You are safe to come exactly as you are. This is a place where you can be seen, celebrated, and supported in your journey to sensual discovery.

The first leap of pleasure is setting aside time to make pleasure a priority. I make prioritzing pleasure so easy. I’ll guide you from where you are now to where you want to be and will offer you an opportunity to continue the journey should you find it’s calling you.

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Perhaps you're feeling a buzz within, an awakening to something more?

That is your deep knowing, your intuition. Trust it!

Sixteen years ago, when I chose to follow my journey toward sexual freedom, I went in knowing I desired something BIG.

Growing up a good Catholic girl, I was told things like you’re too loud, too sexy; tone it down. I became small, believing that I was wrong for having a body, desire & just for being a woman.

Before I chose the path of being a pleasure-based, somatic sex and sensuality educator, my life looked very different.

When my role as mother & wife replaced my teaching career, I lost touch with the connection I used to feel with my body, heart and spirit.

Ashamed and lacking confidence, my life crumbled under me.

Then, a lightbulb went off.

I knew it was time for me to embrace my body, figure out what I desired in my relationship, and have the sex I wanted to have.

I am so grateful that I now get to share my 6,000 plus hours of sensual research, wisdom and passion for pleasure with hundreds of others. It brings me joy to see other women and men fall in love with their bodies, instruct them in the art of sensual connection & Deliberate Embodied Orgasm, and support them to lead life from a place of fun.

I bravely embraced my path in life as your Pleasure Instigator!

This is why I invite you to take YOUR bold step and learn how you can continue your personal journey towards sexual emancipation.

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